How is your self-image? Are you in touch with your feminine allure? Do you feel like an attractive woman who men notice? If you don't answer yes to these questions, then it's time to discover what the secret so many beautiful women know to keep their self-esteem healthy and their desirability vibrant. I rarely care much about Hollywood, but I got taken in by an interview with Paris Hilton. The writer, in so many words, asked Paris if she ever has a bad hair day.

Her response was rather honest, admitting that she does feel not so hot from time to time. What does Paris do about feeling low in the self-confidence department? She gets a facial or a massage because pampering gets her back into feeling like a hottie. That's actually very good advice. Many beautiful women tout this as the solution to not feeling good about themselves. In fact, I've been told that a pampered woman is surely a happy woman. Why is that? Here's why.

What does it matter if you get your nails done or enjoy spa treatments? When you pamper and take care of yourself, you honor yourself. You think you're worthy of extra care, deserve special treatment and are willing to invest in yourself. Both the time and the money. That's a powerful commitment to yourself and a statement to the world. Pampering is actually an act of self-love. If you are single and looking for the right man, make the decision now to be good to yourself.

That's why Paris's solution is such sound advice. It's a well-known fact; if you want to be spoiled by someone, start by spoiling yourself. Dating involves a good deal of rejection which can be hard on the self-esteem. Keeping yourself feeling good is a wonderful way to spring back from those rejection situations. The truth is, every woman has a hottie-side (yes you do!). Why not help her come to the surface and shine? Make the most of your assets and take good care of yourself.